Greg Arnot, CEO Of Kalerion

Greg_a4 OPW INTERVIEW -- July 4 -- Greg Arnot is he’s the CEO of Kalerion Computing and also runs a product called Jivebug.com. Jivebug has been recently launched on Facebook so everyone, everywhere has the ability to know when their Facebook buddies are around. - Mark Brooks

How long has Kalerion Computing been around and what does Kalerion do?
We founded the company in 2004 and we’ve been doing a lot of good engineering work since then. We’re kind of a dating site with a difference. We’re using peoples’ mobile handsets to put them in touch with other people. So if I get close to somebody who is also in the community, my phone beeps.

And this is on a mobile phone as opposed to a land based phone?
Yes, it wouldn’t go very far with a land based handset. The communication protocol that we use for one phone to identify another is Bluetooth.

In order for those 2 phones to communicate, do both of those phones need to be registered within the network?
Yes, they need to be part of the network and they would typically need to have our mobile client running, but not necessarily. We also have a kind of clientless support for phones by changing the friendly Bluetooth of the user’s device to something recognizable to our mobile client. That way we are able to give a similar suite of functionality to somebody with a mobile phone that is not necessarily running our mobile software.

We have just launched a new functionality for Facebook. Somebody on Facebook can install our mobile application and be alerted or warned proactively when they come close to somebody else from Facebook. Let’s say I’ve got hundreds of friends on Facebook that I’ve never met. My phone beeps when one of my friends is close to me. I can send him a message or I can go over and start talking to him.

And more interestingly… if 2 people are on Facebook and they’re not friends, then in that case we apply a dating criterion. The resulting alert in that case would be anonymous.

But if I was at a party with all my friends that signed up to your system, my phone is going to go crazy then?
We would love that to be the case. Most dating attempts around proximity alerts have failed miserably because they didn’t do enough to foster proximity. There are only 1 or 2 mobile dating applications in the world that can do multiple simultaneous Bluetooth detections in a multi-threaded Java client and not crash the phone. Ours is one of them.

So our application can be simultaneously queuing up multiple incoming alerts for different people whether they are friends on Facebook or simply available singles.

So this is Jivebug™?
Yes, that’s the product you install on your phone. At the moment our application has a different name on Facebook but when it goes live in May it will be called Jivebug.

What is your background? How did you end up learning all this stuff?
I was in international marketing for about 13 years before I decided to get into dating. I came to Spain and when I went to parties, I was surrounded by beautiful women and I didn’t know which girls were single. Then even if you knew…how do you make the approach? How do you go over there and make that first introduction? So that’s how I got into it and started Jivebug.

How did you learn all those technical skills?
I was trained as an electronics engineer but I don’t program. I’ve learned this by having very good people working for us.

Are you looking to work with some of the other dating companies?
If you look at some of the success of the dating companies that have launched recently on Facebook, we think there is a lot of potential to grow with relatively little outlay in marketing dollars. That is an avenue that is interesting to us.

In terms of collaborating with the likes of the big players, I really don’t think that they believe we’re a threat yet. If we ever become a threat, maybe they’ll want to talk to us. We certainly are open.

How does the revenue model work for this kind of system with blue dating as you call it?
At the moment it’s pretty much free. We offer as much as we can for free and the basic currency of communicating with someone over the website is going to be free because we’re so closely matched to what Facebook is doing.

In the future, we’re going to be offering premium services. One part of our business is based on key learnings from the parties we’ve thrown; we know that girls in particular don’t like to meet the person the same night. So there is a “morning after effect” where people come to our website the next day to make contact with the person they met the night before and that’s an opportunity for us. So most of the time communication is free but in certain cases you might just have to pay.

Downturn Dating

Dating bar scene ASSOCIATED PRESS -- July 2 --  Some singles are now hunting for dates with the same fervour others are showing hunting for jobs. Membership on eHarmony is up 20% despite monthly fees of up to $60, and activity has soared 50% since September at OkCupid.com. “People are looking for something that’s genuine in a world that isn’t very secure,” said Bathsheba Birman, co-founder of the Chicago dating event Nerds at Heart. Attendance at the monthly gatherings, where mostly young professionals pay $25 for a drink and a chance to spend the evening clustered around trivia and board games — was more than double expectations in April and has stayed high since. FULL ARTICLE @ LETHBRIDGE TIMES

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Friendship First

Friendsdating sites logos WLD BLOG -- July 2 -- There are still people out there that would rather seek friendship in the hope that it turns into more. Friendsormates.com, friendsofyours.com and ukfriendsdating.co.uk are examples of sites that approach dating in a much more subtile way - focusing on the friendship aspect, trying to match people with people who have similar interests and hobbies. FULL ARTICLE @ WLD BLOG

Outsourced Online Dating

Doneforyoudating logo PRESS RELEASE -- July 1 -- Done For You Dating is a new service that lets singles delegate their online dating to a representative who manages their profile and exchanges messages under their name. Dating representatives at the company are selected to be socially savvy, skilled writers who are knowledgeable about popular culture. They receive specific training in online dating and personal branding. Company founder Luke Chao is the managing director of The Morpheus Clinic for Hypnosis, where he first started helping men overcome problems interacting with women. He is the ghostwriter of several books, including Sydnee Steele's Seducing Your Woman. FULL ARTICLE @ EMEDIA WIRE

Mark Brooks: I like the idea of these virtual matchmakers, but they MUST disclose that they are a matchmaker. Of course, as soon as they disclose they are a matchmaker they'll be flagged and kicked off most dating sites. Does your dating site allow matchmakers? Lets take this into the comments section. Your comments please.

Web Side Story

OPW -- June 30 -- Check out this musical parody of online dating set to the songs from West side story, called Web Site Story.  Tony and Maria meet on Twitter...and then Facebook, Pandora, eHarmony and evite are woven into songs in the four and a half minute College Humor video.  Really well done.

ChristianMingle Hits Milestone

Christianmingle logo PRESS RELEASE -- June 30 -- Spark Networks announced today ChristianMingle, a Christian dating site that launched in 2001, has crossed the 2 million member mark. FULL ARTICLE @ EARTH TIMES

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Kris Covino Wins Scammer Email Competition

Winner OPW -- June 29 -- After receiving an email on this post from a scammer, we launched a scammer email competition to see who could come up with a better scammer email. Kris Covino of Date.com wins the competition and we've donated $200 to his favorite charity, the Sick Kids Foundation.

Internet Dating Unplugged

Internet-dating-001 GUARDIAN.CO.UK -- June 27 -- 15m people in the UK are single, and almost 5m are shopping for love online. According to Markus Frind, the CEO of Plentyoffish, 1/3 of POF users form a relationship, 1/3 do not and 1/3 give up. One in five married people between the ages of 19 and 25 met their partner online, in a YouGov poll of more than 2,000. 15% of couples met online. Research at Bath University found that internet relationships lasted, on average, seven months. Clyde Baldo, a psychologist who works with disillusioned internet daters, said "Many people are addicted to online dating. The problems lie in the fact that it is not a real relationship, but one in cyberspace. When you meet people conventionally, friends or colleagues introduce you. These factors create boundaries, so you tend to behave better. This doesn't exist on the internet.  Dr Paige Padgett of the University of Texas has conducted a survey of the personal and sexual safety of women who internet date. 30% of women who meet men on the internet have sex on the first date. Of those, 77% do not use condoms. FULL ARTICLE @ GUARDIAN.CO.UK

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New Mobile Apps Make Adultery Easier

Ashleymadison mobile TIME -- June 29 -- AshleyMadison.com, a personals site designed to facilitate extra-marital affairs, has released an iPhone and Blackberry app. AshleyMadison's membership has doubled over the past year to 4m. Over the past month alone, 679,000 men and women have used the service to contact a cheating partner. FULL ARTICLE @ TIME

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Startups Smell Userplane Blood

Userplane_logo bile TECH CRUNCH -- June 29 -- There has been no shortage of talk about the apparent demise of Userplane, the text, voice and video chat software provider that was acquired by AOL in August 2006 for around $40m. Darin Ohlandt, General Manager of Userplane, responded to the rumors saying they are definitely not shutting down. A recent thread on OnlinePersonalsWatch suggested that the site would be deadpooled by its owner soon. A developer commented on the thread claiming he had tried to contact Userplane for weeks through e-mails, voice calls and social networks and received no response.  Many startups with competing solutions are taking advantage of the rumors about Userplane's impending shut-down. Toksta is the most outspoken one, having set up a special page for Userplane clients who are looking to switch to an alternative provider. Other competitors include Meebo and ekkoTV. FULL ARTICLE @ WASHINGTON POST

Mark Brooks: I had two high trust sources that I've known for several years confirm that Userplane was to be retired. Not sold, just quietly retired. Userplane is having life breathed back into it.  Good.  It would be a shame to lose the company to the deadpool.   

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As Seniors Live Longer They Find 'Love Expectancy' Also Grows

Senior dating MC CLATCHY NEWSPAPERS -- June 26 -- Seniors are the fastest-growing users of Internet dating services and the fastest growing group of cohabiters. Longer healthy life expectancy is part of the explanation. According to Mark Brooks, a consultant and newsletter writer who tracks the Internet-dating industry, the number of seniors joining online dating services has risen at double-digit rates annually since 2003, the most of any age group. According to Susan Brown, a demographer at Bowling Green State University in Ohio, cohabiting among older people increased 50% from 2000 to 2006. The older they get, the more senior men favor younger women, according to researchers. Good men are hard to find. Unmarried women aged 65 to 74 outnumber men of that age by more than two to one. Mark Brooks said seniors' personal ads often were deceptive about sex and commitment: "Women lie about wanting casual relationships. Men lie about wanting long-term ones." FULL ARTICLE @ THE STATE

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