WASHINGTON POST – Dating apps can offer convenience and access to potential partners, but therapists note they may also contribute to emotional fatigue, addictive behavior, and decreased self-esteem when used excessively or for validation. Common issues include swiping-based objectification, mismatched expectations, and dopamine-driven engagement patterns. However, apps can be beneficial for those who prefer controlled environments or have difficulty with in-person dating. Experts recommend limiting app use to once a day, being clear about personal goals, seeking partners with aligned intentions, and avoiding dependence on external approval. Methods like the "Burned Haystack" approach, setting specific criteria and filtering out mismatches, can help users engage with dating apps more effectively and protect their mental well-being.
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Priest Sues Grindr After Being Outed
WASHINGTON POST – Monsignor Jeffrey Burrill, former top administrator of the US Conference of Catholic Bishops, has sued Grindr for failing to protect his data, leading to his outing and resignation in 2021. Burrill claims Grindr did not inform users that their data could be accessed by vendors, which led to his personal information being exposed by a Catholic media site. The lawsuit, filed in California Superior Court, seeks damages and an order to prevent Grindr from releasing user data without notice. Grindr has denied the allegations, stating they are mischaracterizations of their data practices.
Speed Dating Makes a Comeback Amid Dating App Fatigue
WASHINGTON POST – Speed dating is making a comeback as dating app fatigue prompts singles to seek face-to-face connections. In San Francisco, participants embrace the analog approach, finding events through flyers and paying for in-person encounters. With concerns about dating app scams and addictive features, individuals are drawn to the authenticity of speed dating. Despite challenges like talking to strangers and facing rejection, the allure of genuine connections outweighs the risks. While the transition from apps to in-person encounters may be awkward, many find it a refreshing change of pace.
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Making Friends on Apps Doesn’t Need to Be Weird
WASHINGTON POST – Lonely American adults, especially the younger generation, are increasingly turning to apps to make friends, overcoming the stigma associated with seeking platonic relationships online. Platforms such as Discord, Reddit, Bumble, and Meetup have become hubs for individuals seeking companionship. While online dating has been normalized, actively seeking friends online is still considered somewhat taboo. Some participants noted that making friends as an adult requires effort, vulnerability, and a willingness to face social fears.
Automated Dating: the Rise of AI Tools for Romance
WASHINGTON POST – Several start-ups are using AI to optimize and automate online dating with tools like Rizz, YourMove.ai, and Keys AI. These tools help users with everything from creating opening lines to generating responses to messages. AI dating tools can help people with social anxiety, difficulties reading social cues, and help users stand out on dating apps. The lack of personalization is a significant challenge, but founders of these start-ups believe that as AI technology improves, these tools will become more authentic and tailored to a user's personality.
Two Sisters Created a Dating App for People With Disabilities
WASHINGTONPOST – Jacqueline and Alexa Child are launching Dateability, a dating app designed for disabled and chronically ill people. It carries the slogan "Making love accessible." "People with disabilities (PWD) are often discriminated against by other users on dating platforms, and not seen as potential partners." Jacqueline, who suffers from a connective-tissue disorder, had one bad encounter after another with potential dates. Then late last year, she decided to get surgery that would leave her with a feeding tube, making it so that she could no longer eat dinner out. She worried about what that might do to her dating life. That's when they came up with the idea for the app. Alexa described it as a way for them to "take the power and control back."
Dating Apps Are Using Images From the Siege to Ban Rioters’ Accounts
WASHINGTON POST – Jan 18 – Bumble, Tinder and others are freezing out rioters with help from law enforcement and, in some cases, their own photos. Other app users have taken matters into their own hands by striking up conversations with potential rioters and relaying their information to the FBI. Some onlookers have celebrated the viral hunt as a creative form of digital comeuppance. But some privacy advocates said the episode reveals a worrying truth about pervasive public surveillance and the opaque connections between private companies and law enforcement. Both Bumble and Match Group said they were working to remove users known to be involved in the Capitol siege from their platforms.
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