EYE WEEKLY — Sept 22 — Blog Q. My loving wife has a fantasy that I want to make happen for her. She wants me to have online sex with another woman. The problem we have is finding a totally free site. Every site we have found so far states it is free to join, but to chat or view email you have to pay a monthly fee. As we are on a limited budget we were hoping for a free site where I could chat and have online fun. Blog A. There are lots of sites where you can hook up for free online sex no matter what your status, one of them being adultfriendfinder.com — a site that actually has an online chat for couples-looking-for-women option. Now of course they try to woo you at every turn with platinum and gold memberships, but a basic membership is still free, though yes, it is more limiting. Speaking of online sex and dating, remember all those times I raved about Nerve Personals? I need to take it back, or at least offer a serious caveat. The system has been radically changed within the past month. Basic membership is now like every other online dating site and they're trying to make it seem like it's not about them trying to make more coin.
Mark Brooks: Quality online personals services cost money these days. Nerve was not making enough money to survive. It's been bought by the company that runs AdultFriendFinder. What are your thoughts on the changes FriendFinder has introduced? Your comments please.
I’ve been waiting for you to mention the nerve change.
IMO, they’ve destroyed what was a very cool and different community.
First off, they completely bungled the integration/rollout of the “new” nerve application. They destroyed data without warning and they revealed private data without warning.
On the first, they deleted alternate profiles that people were allowed to have in the previous application. No warning. They just got rid of your data.
As to the second, they revealed private photos and suddenly and without warning allowed people on your hotlist to know you had hotlisted them. It’s arguable whether this second “feature” is good or bad, but what’s true is that they did it all without warning.
After screwing up the “upgrade”, they’ve left us with an interface that is cluttered, confusing and just bad. It’s clear that the creators of this app never tested the UI.
I appreciate that they need to make money, but they’ve turned off a lot of people (including me). I am using up my credits and moving on.
thanks for the great blog.
-phil
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