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Month: September 2008

Alex Gurevich, SayHeyHey CEO Interview

Posted on September 20, 2008
Img_7680_2 OPW INTERVIEW — Sep 20 — SayHeyHey does video, quite well.  It's Great Expectations online, for free.  Here's my interview with the CEO. – Mark Brooks

What is your background and founding story?
My origins are from Ukraine. I immigrated to the U.S when I was 7 years old and moved to Los Angeles. I got my undergraduate and graduate degree in engineering at Stanford University. Afterwards I started working in the start up world in Silicon Valley.

As an online dater, I used JDate. I discovered that there was a large gap between what people say in their profiles and what the reality was when you met them. A lot of the pictures that you see are of people that are 10 years and 40 pounds ago with a lot of static content and generic stuff like walks on the beach. That doesn’t tell you much. I thought there could be a better solution. And that’s kind of how SayHeyHey came about.

How is your site different and how do people use SayHeyHey?
It’s free online video dating. We’ve built an online dating site with online dating mechanisms built in but the introductions happen via video with the idea that video provides a much more meaningful way of communicating. You can see people’s mannerisms and hear their voice. You can get a better sense of who they are even if they’re talking about generic things, so there is a higher chance of a good match when you meet them live. Members can have multiple private or public videos in their profiles.

If they like somebody they found on our site by browsing or through our matching algorithm, they can send their own video to that person. If the person likes the video and accepts the introduction, the two parties are automatically connected and they can have a free flowing conversation where they can set up a date, exchange phones numbers, whatever they like.

I like to think of it as YouTube with an online dating mechanism built behind it with a sophisticated video delivery platform inside as well. However when we launched, our users told us a completely different story of what they wanted. It became more of a soap box for people to share their experiences with online dating, their love life, relationships, and sex. This brought out a lot of entertainment value that has been dormant in online dating to this date and SayHeyHey became an entertainment media property as well.

The other key aspect is that we’re targeting the 18 to 28 year old demographic, which has largely been neglected in the online dating community. If you look at Match.com and eHarmony, the average age there is around 33 to 35 years. Those are people who are looking to settle down; they have disposable income to pay $30 to $35 a month for the service. That’s not the case with young adults. They’re not looking to get married. They’re looking to have fun, to date, hook up and enjoy funny videos. That’s what we are providing here.

How are things going with Verizon? I saw you had a partnership with Verizon.
Yeah that’s right. When we launched Verizon reached out to us and said: “Hey guys you have some really compelling content here. You are targeting the demographic that we’re trying to reach.” So we did a deal in a few months to distribute and license SayHeyHey content on V-Cast. We have our own channel and we’ve been live with them since May. I couldn’t be happier having such a great partner, which also helps us on the distribution side in addition to revenue.

How do you make money?
There are several ways. Licensing with Verizon is a big part of our revenue mix. There are other opportunities that I can’t really talk about too much but let’s just say mobile is a big part of our strategy and there are other integrations with sort of traditional media that we’re working with to get SayHeyHey content out there and make some revenue out of licensing as well. Advertising will be a big part as well once we think its best for our users. That will probably take from a post roll out, pre roll out in video ad campaign. We’re also going to offer a premium account, which will allow live video chat and conversations, as well as a Pay-for-Placement model which allows users to bid for added exposure on our home page to get more hits, and hopefully more dates. This has proven to work well in Europe.

Have you considered working with other site?
Absolutely. We had some preliminary conversations with a few major players that I can’t discuss but its one of the strategies we’re evaluating at the moment.

What are your goals for 2008 through 2009? Where do you see your company being?
Our key focus right now is to keep growing the user base and more importantly creating more and more content. We have a couple of things in the works that are fairly innovative and fairly groundbreaking. What we’re trying to do is really shake up the online dating industry.

From my perspective, it has really been lacking innovation for a long, long time and that’s why you’re seeing such bad growth numbers in the United States for online dating – 7% compared to Europe’s 40%. A lot of the major players are afraid to innovate because they don’t want to mess up what they have, which is pretty nice revenue numbers from their entrenched base. So we’re trying to shake that up as much as possible and we’re going to do that through our content and through our products. Another focus in the next year will be the international expansion. We are planning a strong push in Latin America this Fall.

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Indian Dating For Divorcees

Posted on September 19, 2008

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WASHINGTON POST — Sep 19 — In India, divorce is slowly becoming a
girl’s best friend. In a country where marriage is a cornerstone of
family life, there
has long been a deep social stigma associated with divorce. Arranged
marriages are still common. India is a young nation, with 75% of the
population under age
35. A new matchmaking Indian Web site called SecondShaadi.com — shaadi
meaning marriage — is targeting divorcees and widows. FULL ARTICLE @ WASHINGTON POST

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David Thornton Named National Call Center Director at The Right One and Together Dating

Posted on September 19, 2008

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DATELINE: NORWELL, MA… The Right One and Together Dating, the largest traditional dating service in the industry with headquarters in Norwell, Mass., has recently promoted David Thornton to the position of National Call Center Director.

In his new position, Thornton will oversee The Right One and Together Dating’s call centers in Boston; Baltimore, Maryland; Rockford, Illinois and Las Vegas, Nevada.

Thornton has 19 years of experience in the dating service industry.  He started out working for Together Dating in the Midwest in 1989 and was the service’s first telemarketer.  Over the years, Thornton wore many hats, including that of matchmaker, sales consultant and Regional Sales Director.  In 2004, Thornton returned to the Boston area and held the position of General Manager for The Right One’s telemarketing, sales and customer service departments.  In 2006, The Right One awarded Thornton for his dedication and commitment.

“Dave has been instrumental in the success of our telemarketing and call center operations.  He knows the industry well and has a tremendous track record.  It’s a pleasure to have him as part of our senior management team,” noted Paul A. Falzone, CEO.

A native of Acton, Thornton graduated from Acton-Boxborough Regional High School and attended Fitchburg State College in Fitchburg, Mass. He is a resident of Hull, Mass.

“I’ve been with The Right One and Together Dating for almost two decades.  It’s a great organization and whether you’re a client, business associate or part of their team – they know how to treat people right.”

Thornton’s longevity at The Right One and Together Dating is matched by a number of other team members, including Terry Fitzpatrick, COO, who has been with the company for 18 years and Brenan McGarrigle, a Relationship Consultant who has approximately 600 marriages to her credit during her 25 year tenure.

Matchmaking Success throughout the Nation

The Right One and Together Dating are the largest brick and mortar dating services in the industry, catering to more than 300,000 members at 60 locations throughout North America. With 30 years of experience, The Right One and Together Dating offer a more consistent product, a greater number of potentially compatible mates and added value of flexibility in transferring memberships to another geographic region. Their focus on compatibility as well as their high level of personal attention and caring guidance has made them leaders in the industry.

The Right One’s offices and affiliates located throughout the United States include: California (San Diego); Colorado (Glendale); Florida (Miami); Georgia (Atlanta); Illinois (Downers Grove, Rockford and Normal); Kansas (Wichita, Overland Park); Massachusetts (Norwell, Newton, Shrewsbury and Woburn); Nebraska (Omaha and Lincoln); New Jersey (Cherry Hill, Hackensack); Pennsylvania (King of Prussia, Pittsburgh); Rhode Island (Warwick); Texas (Dallas, Austin); and Wisconsin (Madison, Appleton, Elm Grove). 

North American locations and affiliates of Together Dating are: California (Encino, Irvine, Los Angeles, Upland); Florida (Palm Beach, Vero Beach); Georgia (Savannah); Indiana (Ft. Wayne, Carmel, Mishawaka); Kentucky (Lexington, Louisville); Louisiana (Metairie); Maryland (Columbia, Frederick); Minnesota (Edina); Nevada (Reno); New Hampshire (Hooksett, Nashua, Portsmouth and Salem); New Jersey (Bridgewater, Colts Neck, Lawrenceville); Ohio (Cincinnati); Pennsylvania (Mechanicsburg); South Carolina (Greenville); South Dakota (Sioux Falls); Texas (San Antonio, Beaumont and Houston) and Virginia (Falls Church). 

For more information about The Right One and Together Dating, please visit their websites at www.therightone.com and www.togetherdating.com or call (800) 818-DATE (3283).

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Mike Fitzgerald, BoneFish CEO Interview

Posted on September 18, 2008

Mike_fitzgeraldOPW INTERVIEW — Sep 18 — Mike Fitzgerald is the CEO of BoneFish and interviewed with me on the subject of internet dating scamming and how to stop scammers. – Mark Brooks

What kind of scamming have you encountered on Bone Fish’s affiliate sites?
About 90% of the scamming on Bone Fish’s sites has come from Russian and African scammers. Russian scammers are primarily looking for people to send money to Russian women or to entice members to send airfares and give gifts, etc. 

African scammers are slightly different in that they send out emails relating tales of woe and stating that they have a great deal of money sitting in a bank account in Uganda and are looking for assistance to transfer it into an overseas bank account for a percentage of the sum (or similar).

Bone Fish has tried to combat this matter by bringing on-board a full time risk manager whose sole purpose is to deal with the scamming issue. I would say that at the moment, it is probably our number one priority as it affects our reputation with banks, members and affiliates, who are obviously being hit by the chargebacks on a weekly basis.

Do you ever encounter any types of scamming through the affiliates? Do you ever have any scammers sign up as affiliates?
About three years ago, we had someone from India register as an affiliate. However, upon seeing the affiliate’s average sales rocket about twice as high as our own, we realized that something was wrong. Their conversion rate was about 40-50% instead of 10-15%. Fortunately, we caught them at an early stage and cancelled their account. That's the only scammer I know of who actually signed up as an affiliate.

At the end of the day we try to cut scammers out before they become affiliates. As a result, we don't allow – and we heavily screen – new affiliates from certain countries. For example, potential affiliates from Russia, India and Africa.

How do scammers affect the reputation of your sites and services?
Members that have belonged to the service for two or three years and see some form scamming going on do tend to inform us of the problem so that we can remove the scammer(s) from the site. But, if he/she is a new member who has just registered, it is a very awkward situation and it makes us look very unprofessional. 

However, we do take measures to assure members that their information is safe and that they will meet genuine people on the site. We also take great measures to ensure that members are not contacted by scammers from Russia or Africa, because if they are contacted – especially within their first two or three weeks of being on the site – then it simply looks terrible.

What can the industry do to beat scammers?
Many a time I've looked on the internet for places that work like a “scammer central”. I've managed to find a few websites that list 5,000-7,000 members who are known scammers. However, I do not think that this is the right approach as it lists the names of the individual members (the scammers) that are contacting the members – not where they come from!

What I think the industry needs is a white list and a black list of IP ranges. For example, at Bone Fish Ltd we use an application on our credit card page that grabs the IP address. As such, we have blocked approximately 25% of all IP addresses in the world and still continually adding to the list on a regular basis. I’m hoping that this will catch some 95% of scammers.

With this in mind I don't think that having profiles of known scammers is the way forward. I think people need to sit down and actually look at the more technical side of it and determine where these people are actually coming from. Are they signing up in the UK, paying from Africa and then sending the messages from Africa? Or are they using IP masking tools to stop people from detecting their location? I think that these are the real issues rather than the specific members. I think we need to look at ISP and server-side solutions rather than having a great big database that's simply updated. Ideally, someone needs to put together a site from a technical point of view that will allow people to share techniques on how to block scamming.

Do you have any tips for smaller sites and services to beat scammers?
Yes, at Bone Fish Ltd we do employ a few measures that I am happy to share with you. I think the first thing smaller sites and services should do is get themselves an IP scanning tool which scans the IP addresses of all members that sign up to the site. Coupled with this, I would opt for one of the various merchants or banks on the internet, obtain a list of known high-risk countries and essentially impede all of these countries from being able to access the service – both on the credit card page and during the registration processes. (You have to remember that scammers can sign up in the UK and then pay through Africa, so special attention must be paid to these pages in particular).

The second thing I would recommend to smaller sites is a message frequency service which analyzes the number of messages a member sends out in a day. As such, owners of these sites can then analyze what is going out, and flag anybody who is sending 40 or 50 messages on a daily basis. This will help to assess who needs to be watched carefully and will essentially ensure that these members are not scamming other members. These are perhaps two primary things that will go a long way towards stopping scamming. 

And finally, the third thing I would do is have an email centre which stops .fr and .ru from logging into the service. The Ivory Coast uses .fr and Russia uses .ru. However, this will only work until scammers figure out that they are being blocked. But for the time being, it will certainly get rid of inexperienced scammers. Because every little helps. 

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eHarmony Opens Relationship With AOL

Posted on September 18, 2008

Eharmonylogo WIRED — Sep 17 — eHarmony partners with AOL to share its online dating advice to readers of AOL Personals. AOL users will be able to register for eHarmony's singles matching service directly from AOL Personals, but in keeping with AOL's new aggregation format, eHarmony will share the screen with competing services like Match.com. FULL ARTICLE @ WIRED

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Allegran Executive Joins AnotherFriend

Posted on September 18, 2008

Bill_richards_another_friend ANOTHER FRIEND — Sep 17 — Bill Richards has been appointed Chief Operating Officer at WebDev Ltd – Internet Dating Services, responsible for Anotherfriend.com, SingleParents.ie and Flirty.ie. Bill is responsible for all operational aspects of the company's Internet dating site portfolio from technology development to customer services. His CV includes Allegran (LoopyLove), SportingBet and his own management consultancy.

The full article was originally published at Another Friend website, but is no longer available.

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Dr Kirschner Launches Love in 90 Days Site

Posted on September 17, 2008

Lovein90days_logo PR WEB — Sep 17 — Dating expert and psychologist, Dr. Diana Kirschner, launched the Love in 90 Days website, which includes a blog, new cutting-edge articles on rapid dating success for women, etips, a discussion forum, relationship quizzes and advance promotion of her new book Love In 90 Days. Dr. Diana is a frequent guest on The Today Show, has appeared on Oprah and Good Morning America, is a featured dating expert at Yahoo! Personals.com and is the Official Dating Guide at Selfgrowth.com. She is also an Expert Author at EZineArticles.com.

The full article was originally published at eMedia Wire, but is no longer available.

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Group Dating

Posted on September 17, 2008

Group_dating_2 8AT8 — Sep 16 — On Ignighter.com, groups are formed through an ambassador — a kind of social director — who invites his or her friends to join. Groups go out with other groups. Group-dating came on the scene in 1998 with 8at8, a service that sets up dinner dates with four men and four women and now has 25,000 members in six major metropolitan areas. Then came the Internet and, with it, sites like TeamDating.com, which has a concept similar to Ignighter's. IamFreeTonight.com allows its  users to post double-date and group-date listings. Meet New People, a Facebook dating application, has more than 3m users who post when they are free to "hang out" and RSVP to group gatherings. FULL ARTICLE @ 8AT8

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Chemistry.com’s Almost New Spokesperson?

Posted on September 17, 2008

Fabio OPW Bogus Exclusive: The star of this TV ad had interviewed with Chemistry.com to be their new spokesman but Airborne got to him first and clinched the deal. Picture 'Fabio' as the new spokesman competitor to Neil Clark Warren, spreading love instead of Airborne around the world. That would have been amusing.  See comments.

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Match.com Names Mandy Ginsberg As Senior VP

Posted on September 17, 2008

Matchlogo PRESS RELEASE — Sep 16 — Mandy Ginsberg has been named Senior Vice President and General Manager of Match.com. In this role, she will have responsibility for Match.com's North American business including Chemistry.com. Mandy Ginsberg joined Match.com in March 2006 as the company's VP and GM of Chemistry.com.

The full article was originally published at Earth Times, but is no longer available.

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