BLISS TREE – July 6 – Dr. Neil Clark Warren thinks that most of us are just choosing the wrong partner. “~2M couples will get married in the US this year alone. Several hundred thousand of these couples should reconsider, postpone their weddings or not get married,” he says. Too many marriages end badly. "Bad marriages don’t just happen to bad people. They mostly happen to good people who are not good for each other", he says.
by Briana Rognlin
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Yup, Neil Clark Warren is back. And barnstorming. What a bold statement. This should get the press, and users talking.
Yup, Neil Clark Warren is back. And barnstorming. What a bold statement. This should get the press, and users talking.
Maybe a bold statement, but it is true. So many people get married just because it is that time in life when other people get married. That way they make a big mistake.
Definitely reconsider the marriage until both are absolutely certain.
Maybe a bold statement, but it is true. So many people get married just because it is that time in life when other people get married. That way they make a big mistake.
Definitely reconsider the marriage until both are absolutely certain.
He’s saying to not get married because there are too many divorces, but he overlooks a basic item that could reduce divorce, and that is premarital sex. Living together doesn’t test commitment, which is absolutely vital for marriage. A good test of commitment is 1) not having sex before marriage and 2) being willing to commit a lifetime to a person. When you don’t get sexually involved, you can focus on who that person is without the sexual distraction. This will be like making sure you first have a “nutritious person” on the plate, before getting hooked on dessert.
Study Confirms Cohabitation Leads To Higher Chance Of Divorce and Lower Relationship Quality
See: http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/archive/ldn/2009/jul/09071502
He’s saying to not get married because there are too many divorces, but he overlooks a basic item that could reduce divorce, and that is premarital sex. Living together doesn’t test commitment, which is absolutely vital for marriage. A good test of commitment is 1) not having sex before marriage and 2) being willing to commit a lifetime to a person. When you don’t get sexually involved, you can focus on who that person is without the sexual distraction. This will be like making sure you first have a “nutritious person” on the plate, before getting hooked on dessert.
Study Confirms Cohabitation Leads To Higher Chance Of Divorce and Lower Relationship Quality
See: http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/archive/ldn/2009/jul/09071502