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Month: November 2018

The Most Popular Love Language on Hinge Is Quality Time

Posted on November 20, 2018

5lovelanguagesBUSTLE – Nov 16 – Dr. Gary Chapman outlined love language in his book The 5 Love Languages. The idea being that there are five different ways people feel love and show love in their relationships. The five love languages are: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch. But what's the most popular way to express yourself in a romantic relationship? According to new data from dating app Hinge, the most common love language is Quality Time, which was over twice as popular for its users as the next option, Words of Affirmation. There was some discrepancy between men and women in how they looked at the other love languages. For men, Physical Touch and Words of Affirmation were both neck-in-neck for second place, but for women it was just Words of Affirmation comfortably in ahead.

by Lea Rose Emery
See full article at Bustle

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Transnational Marriage Match Ads Banned in Taiwan

Posted on November 20, 2018

Nia taiwanFOCUSTAIWAN – Nov 16 – The National Immigration Agency (NIA) slapped fines of between NT$35K ($1,133) and NT$300K on violators of a law that bans advertisements for transnational marriage matchmaking services. The ban is clearly stated in the Immigration Act. It said people have been complaining to the agency that they have been conned out of money by the people running transactional marriage match ads on social media and television.

See full article at Focus Taiwan

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Apple’s Influence Is Greater than iPhone Sales Figures Suggest

Posted on November 20, 2018

Iphone casesTECH1ST – Nov 16 – The iPhone may bring in ~60% of Apple's revenues, but it still only accounts for a fifth of smartphones sold worldwide. But its influence is greater than this suggests. The company's App Store accounts for roughly two-thirds of the $20B that was paid in the latest quarter, according to App Annie. Maximising revenues from each user, rather than simply selling more devices, is now Apple's top priority. The shift was confirmed by this month’s news that it will no longer disclose iPhone sales volumes.

The full article was originally published at Tech1st, but is no longer available.

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Interview with George Kidd, CEO of Online Dating Association

Posted on November 19, 2018

ODA George KiddOPW INTERVIEW – Nov 19 – The OnlineDatingAssociation.org.uk is based in the UK and was formed to help a group of dating companies discuss standards and speak as one voice to regulators. A good cause. George Kidd is the CEO, and we interviewed him about some sticky issues in Internet dating.

What is the greatest concern regarding online dating safety?
It is the distinction between a profile and a person; how we see and present ourselves online and when messaging and how we truly are as individuals. That is why a key ODA message is "Get to know the person, not the profile".

Do you think an online dating service has an obligation to provide background checks?
Yes and no. In Germany and the UK, third parties cannot access criminal records. Exemptions exist for those working in schools. Also many of those who commit some offence are first-time offenders: there is no previous database flagging past behaviour. We need, therefore, to look at what is practical in terms of prevention.

What are your thoughts on bots?
Operators should not create fake profiles to populate their service. I have heard the argument that it might be ok for some adult dating services to create profiles in order to balance up the gender ratio or to spice up a service that is about fantasy, not dating. I am not persuaded. Paying users surely don't want to chat with bots.

What are the existing laws surrounding financial scammers on online dating services?
Scamming is fraud, a criminal activity and prosecutable as such.

How should these crimes be prosecuted?
I am inclined to say better! But that is unfair on national and regional law enforcement agencies. Wrongdoers run their scams anywhere in the world. And, while there are some successful international co-operations, there are many more scams un-investigated for this reason.

Should the dating service be involved?
We are in a world of "best endeavours". In our case that might mean more real-time police sharing of reports of wrongdoing that allow operators to cut off any suspect behaviour. Somewhere in the mix sits financial institutions: "follow the money" or "block the payment" could make a huge difference.

Read the full interview here.

There's an event on Friday 29th November you might want to check out. ODA are doing a session in the afternoon in London titled, "The impact of new wave dating services – are we now a form of social media?" .

Post by Mark Brooks, CEO IDEA

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Interview with George Kidd, CEO of Online Dating Association

Posted on November 19, 2018

Apps like Bumble, Zoosk, and Badoo have used photo verification to verify that users are real. What do you think is the future of verification for dating apps?
That’s an important question and one that’s tough to answer. Forms of verification can obviously deter scammers but also give people an assurance the person they are looking at has been verified in same way they were…that he or she seems definitely to be for real.

I do not, however, run a service so cannot speak from personal experience bout user reactions when verification steps are offered or applied. Some have said previous attempts resulted in many real new users not signing up due to the complexity of some forms of verification.

Many operators clearly now believe attitudes have changed and that technology is on their side in terms of almost frictionless verification and there is obvious attraction in forms of photo self verification that reduces the need to collect other data. Its an approach that is in tune with a user base that joins and accesses services through smartphones etc.

That feels very different from any duty on operators to verify identity and age when few countries have national ID regimes or other simple alternative, particularly when there is no legal requirement, and when a data-based process could be a costly deterrent to folks using a service.

As a body based on a set of standards, good practice and guidance the ODA certainly needs to keep looking at where and how the sector feels we should go further in terms of identifying options for photo verification or other forms of self verification that can be trusted without setting “requirements”.

Do you think online dating is considered social media or something different? Is it possible that it could be both?
A great question and one we will address at a workshop in November. I suspect the answer is “both”. If beauty is in the eye of the beholder the definition of “social media” is in the gift of lawmakers at a national or Community level. Using slightly different language, it can be argued dating sites and others such as eBay host content and facilitate messaging on a peer to peer basis for one single purpose. That is different from the likes of Facebook, Instagram etc who distribute or “accelerate” content from third parties as well as individual users sharing their lives and views with their “network” of with the social media community at large.

Facebook’s talk of offering dating services will clearly edge policymakers towards a view that only limited distinctions between forms of online publishing, hosting and accelerating content are possible. It is for us to ensure they understand the distinctions and explain why any approach to dating services has to be targeted and proportionate to the risks. Our services do not seem to create, publish and accelerate content for which providers could be made accountable.

What do you think is the greatest concern regarding online dating safety, and how you think regulation may be able to help?
It may be a concept regulation is not best placed to address. It is the distinction between a profile and a person. I do not refer just or particularly to fake profiles and risks of online fraud. I refer to the distinction between how we see and present ourselves online and when messaging and how we truly are as individuals. There is a famous Magritte panting of a pipe with the words “Ceci n’est pas un pipe”. As I get it, it is saying we should not confuse a thing or person with an image of that thing or person. A picture of a pipe is not a pipe! That might sound heavy or pretentious, but it boils back to online services as an instrument that allows people to meet and get to know others. That is why a key ODA message we promote is “Get to know the person, not the profile”.

Do you think an online dating service has an obligation to provide background checks on their members?
To say no, smacks of indifference. To say yes is to suggest operators have some absolute duty and some pretty absolute responsibilities as a result. This goes to the challenge we all face in balancing messages on what operators may do vis profile and other checks and monitoring of services with messages reminding users that they have a duty to themselves to remain alert to the possibility someone is not what he or she seems.

In Germany and the UK and in many other jurisdictions third parties cannot go to a Ministry of Justice or Disclosure and Barring Service to access information about previous criminal convictions. Exemptions exist, for example for those working in schools or with children in other environments, but they do not extend to the generality of employments or to web- trading, dating services or other activities. We need also to recognise that many of those who commit some offence are first-time offenders: there is no previous database or file flagging past behaviour.

We need, therefore, to look at what is practical in terms of prevention and deterrence at an operator level and a how that work is done and shared with users alongside some clear reminders of the need for users themselves to exercise care when messaging and care again when meeting someone in person.

One thing we have previously raised in the UK is the case for some ban on use of dating or social media services as a condition of sentencing or as a condition of parole and release from custody where the offender in question had previously set out to use these services specifically to cause harm to others.

What are your thoughts on businesses and users creating bots or fake profiles? Should it be illegal for bots to pretend to be human users?
Our guidance is that operators should not themselves create fake profiles to seem to populate a service or knowingly allow users or any other party to create and post fake profiles to attempt a fraud.

I have heard the argument that it might be ok for some services in the adult field to create profiles as part of an exercise in balancing up the gender mix or to spice up a service that is about fantasy, not dating. I am not persuaded. We need to think what the legitimate expectation is from a person paying for what she or he believes to be a service designed to stimulate encounters. Surely, it is not to chat to a bot. And I have a clear belief that national consumer protection agencies would take the same view.

Finally, for an activity to be illegal there would need to be a law outlawing that activity. That law would, presumably, wish to address any and all circumstances in which a bot might be created. That might happen in some omnibus legislation on digital safety, but it would require a whole lot of thinking through. I would certainly be wary of unintended consequences: there may be many sectors who create online personas precisely in order to identify and against wrongdoers.

Do you think that the data of private chats on dating services between users should belong to the users or the dating service?
I am no lawyer, but assume the law is the law is the law on this. Users have rights under GDPR and other legislation. That extends to access on the data held on them and rights to have data taken down and deleted, subject to a business’ policies and duties to law enforcers and others.

With chats we have to recognise the chat is not between a user and the operator but a chat between two users facilitated by the operator. There would seem to be a limit to what can be done about messaging content that is also in the possession of the person you chat with.

What are the existing laws surrounding financial scammers on online dating services? How should these crimes be prosecuted? Should the dating service be involved?
This is another question that invites a lengthy reply that raises more questions that answers. I will resist that, at least in terms of length.

Are dating services “Hosts” under existing E Commerce law? This might prevent national governments from requiring that hosts “monitor the information which they transmit or store, nor a general obligation actively to seek facts or circumstances indicating illegal activity.” This Directive makes a clear distinction between illegal content (the worry with social media channels?) and illegal activity such as scamming.

Scamming is fraud. It is obtaining goods by deception. It is a criminal activity and prosecutable as such. That sits in parallel with but is quite different from consumer protection laws at the Community level that set out what is and is not unfair in terms of trading practices.

How should these crimes be prosecuted? I am inclined to say better! But that is unfair on national and regional law enforcement agencies. All kinds of internet scams exist. The UK National Fraud Intelligence Bureau (NFIB) lists about forty. A common feature is the ability of wrongdoers to run their scams for anywhere in the world. And, while there are some encouraging examples of successful international co-operation, there are many more stories of reports going un-investigated for this reason.

We are therefore, in a world of “best endeavours”. In our case that might mean more real-time police sharing of reports of wrongdoing that allow operators to cut off any suspect behaviour. It means operators themselves looking at the mix of deterrent activity possible: profile checking or verification by various means, reporting tools and clear, timely and user-friendly advice and guidance on how to minimise exposure.

Somewhere in the mix sits financial institutions: “follow the money” or “block the payment” could make a huge difference and banks and international money bureaux should also be looking at what can be done.

As a sector we have to take this problem seriously. We cannot refer to the real social significance and value of services that might now account for more than 30% of new relationships without recognising this comes with responsibilities. Our aim is to ensure we can continue to provide this valued and valuable service by ensuring decisions on how the sector is regarded and regulated are informed, proportionate and practical.

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“Big Data Demystified” – Author Interview

Posted on November 16, 2018

PROLIFIC WISDOM INTERVIEW – Nov 16 – We're moving towards a world where big data and A.I. will be far more significant in online dating. For some dating companies, it already is. But some terms and the general realm of big data and artificial intelligence seems shrouded in mystique. It would be nice to demystify big data and A.I. Dr David Stephenson does just this with his new book Big Data Demystified. I interviewed him to get a better sense of some of the mystique of big data. Dr Stephenson was head of Global Business Analytics at eBay and is a Cornell PhD.

Post by Mark Brooks, CEO IDEA

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Tinder Is Launching the ‘Swipe Surge’

Posted on November 15, 2018

Tinder_surgeWIRED – Nov 15 – Tinder is testing a new feature called Swipe Surge, which sends a push notification when usage is spiking in a specific geographic area. During those periods, Tinder says the odds of finding a match are increased. Swipe Surges are triggered by a number of variables, including when activity in an area is two times normal averages. Users in cities where Swipe Surge is being tested can expect to receive around one notification a week. Tinder says surges tend to occur on Monday nights, though they can happen at any time. A surge might happen in response to a local event, like a music festival or conference. The company also says that in some cities, like New York, surges may happen later at night than elsewhere.

by Louise Matsakis
See full article at Wired

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Bumble Is Open to a Future IPO

Posted on November 15, 2018

Bumble whitney wolfe nov 2018WALL STREET JOURNAL – Nov 14 – Speaking at The Wall Street Journal's WSJ Tech D.Live conference on Wednesday, Bumble CEO Whitney Wolfe Herd said an IPO could give her company more momentum to expand further internationally. Wolfe Herd founded the dating app in 2014 as a site where women must make the first move. The company now has ~45M users and is profitable, she said. Still, an IPO is more of an option than a necessity for Bumble right now. Wolfe Herd said her company's next phase of growth isn't contingent on raising this money this way and noted the offering is far from certain. "We're exploring a lot of different options right now," Wolfe Herd said.

by Georgia Wells
See full article at Wall Street Journal

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Tinder Tests an Expansion of Tinder U

Posted on November 15, 2018

Tinder rivalry weekTECH CRUNCH – Nov 15 – Starting this weekend, Tinder will allow college students on its Tinder U service to match with others outside their own university for the first time. The dating app is positioning this market test of a potential Tinder U expansion as the "Rivals Week" – a way to match users with those who attend a rival university (for a limited period of time). Tinder U's Rivalry Week starts Nov 17 in the U.S. for students attending four-year, degree-granting colleges and universities. It ends Nov 24. Tinder U launched a few months ago as a way to attract more younger users to its service. College students can choose to opt into Tinder U by signing up with their ".edu" email address. Until now, however, Tinder U limited users to matching only with those who attend their same school. That changes with "Rivals Week". The Tinder U product is live in ~1,200 colleges across the U.S.

by Sarah Perez
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Bumble’s Mental Health Notification Missed the Mark

Posted on November 15, 2018

Bumble mental health notificationTHE MIGHTY – Nov 15 – On Tuesday, Canadian users of Bumble received a push notification that said, "Did you know 1 in 10 men will experience depression in their lives? Match today to support men's mental health." The purpose of the notification was to raise money for Movember Canada, the leading international charity addressing men's mental health, but some social media users took issue with the way it was worded, believing it encouraged women to take on the emotional burdens of men. Bumble quickly replied to Twitter users expressing discomfort with the wording of the push notification. While Bumble's intentions were good, the notification touched a nerve for many social media users because women are often expected to carry emotional weight of others.

by Juliette Virzi
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