OPW – In a debate moderated by journalist Nayeema Raza, matchmaker Maria Avgitidis (CEO of Agape Match) and Melissa Hobley (Global CMO of Tinder) discussed whether dating apps are more of a hindrance than a help.
Maria argued that dating apps have gamified romance, leading to exhaustion, indecision, and a paradox of choice. She claimed users are more focused on superficial traits, like height, and are getting dopamine hits rather than real relationships. She pointed to Gen Z’s declining interest in dating apps as proof that people are looking for more authentic ways to connect.
Melissa countered that dating apps remain the most effective way to meet a partner, citing research showing that half of relationships and 70-80% of LGBTQ+ relationships start online. She acknowledged that dating is hard but emphasized that apps like Tinder provide accessibility, control, and opportunities that wouldn’t exist otherwise. Melissa highlighted Tinder’s role in promoting social change, such as advocating for LGBTQ+ rights.
Both agreed dating apps aren’t disappearing but need to improve. Maria urged users to be more intentional, arguing that past generations built lasting connections without endless swiping. Melissa defended apps as essential, especially for marginalized groups, citing Tinder’s role in LGBTQ+ rights and a rise in interracial relationships.
