PRIMEDIA+ – A Stanford study reveals that 60% of couples now meet online through dating apps and social media, highlighting a significant shift from traditional methods like family and friend introductions. The study, conducted in 2017 with follow-ups in 2020 and 2022, tracks changes in how couples meet over decades.
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How Men Are Using ChatGPT to Get Dates
WE GOT THIS COVERED – Men are increasingly using AI, like ChatGPT, to craft dating app messages and profiles, with some reporting more confidence and success in getting responses. A study by Attractiontruth found that 20% of men aged 25-35 use AI tools for dating, and dedicated services like YourMove.AI have gained traction with users who feel shy or need assistance in online dating. Experts caution that while AI helps with first impressions, it risks creating inauthentic connections.
Friendship Apps on the Rise as Loneliness Impacts Nearly Half of UK Adults
BBC – Nearly half of UK adults report feeling lonely at times, and 62% of young people say loneliness lowers their confidence, according to the Campaign to End Loneliness and Co-Op Foundation. Apps like Bumble BFF and Meetup are becoming popular as young people seek friendships online. Professor Andrea Wigfield, director of the Centre for Loneliness Studies at the University of Sheffield, predicts that these apps could soon be as common as dating apps, helping people build meaningful connections in the same way.
Dating App Challenges Linked to Rising ADHD Diagnoses in Adults
DAILYMAIL.CO.UK – Struggling with dating apps could be a sign of undiagnosed ADHD, affecting an estimated two million Brits. New research by Hinge reveals that people with ADHD are more likely to feel overwhelmed and misunderstood on these platforms. Among ADHD daters, 43% forget to respond to matches, often leading to misinterpreted intentions. Experts suggest ADHD users could benefit from being open about communication styles and moving to in-person dates after three days of online chatting. ADHD diagnoses are rising, with prescription rates in England jumping, particularly among women in their 20s and 30s, while awareness has spurred debates on overdiagnosis and ADHD's societal impacts.
Parship Study: Loneliness Affects Both Singles and Couples, Regardless of Relationship Status
PARSHIP – The Parship Loneliness Index reveals that 23% of singles feel somewhat or extremely lonely, compared to just 12% of people in relationships. Additionally, 30% of partnered individuals report feeling lonely at times, even when their partner is present. Experts stress that loneliness is not just about relationship status but also the quality of social connections. For those who are extremely lonely, 64% of singles believe a relationship would reduce their loneliness. Eric Hegmann, a relationship therapist, advises couples to maintain strong social networks to avoid loneliness within relationships, while Stella Schultner encourages singles to build fulfilling lives through friendships and self-love rather than relying solely on a relationship for happiness.
eharmony Survey Uncovers Men’s Struggles in Modern Dating
ASKMEN – eharmony's "The New Leading Man" survey of 2K adults highlights challenges men face in dating. Key findings include height bias (42% of Gen Z and 35% of millennials wouldn’t date shorter men), financial pressure (23%), and concerns about sexual performance (31%).
Eye-Tracking Study Uncovers How Men and Women Prioritize Looks in Online Dating

PSYPOST – A study published in Archives of Sexual Behavior used eye-tracking to reveal gender differences in evaluating online dating profiles. Men focused mostly on physical attractiveness, while women considered both looks and financial resources. Men paid more attention to unattractive women only with higher incomes, while women scrutinized men's faces more if they had lower incomes. This supports theories that men prioritize physical attractiveness for short-term relationships, and women seek resource-rich partners for long-term relationships.
Over 50s Is the Most Lucrative Age Group for Speed Dating
BBC – Over 50s are now the most lucrative age group for speed dating, as they prefer traditional, in-person connections over dating apps. Slow Dating, a speed dating company, has seen a 21% increase in events for over 50s this year, making up over 40% of their sessions.
Online Dating Caused a Rise in US Income Inequality, Research Paper Shows
BLOOMBERG – A research paper by the Federal Reserve Banks of Dallas and St. Louis and Haverford College found that online dating has contributed to rising income inequality in the US. Since dating apps became popular, people are more likely to marry partners with similar education and income levels, accounting for about half of the increase in income inequality between 1980 and 2020. This trend has led to a 3% increase in the Gini coefficient, which measures income inequality, by concentrating wealth in certain households.
BLK Dating App Survey Finds 43% of Black Gen Z Singles Are Celibate
ESSENCE – A recent survey by BLK Dating App revealed that 43% of Black Gen Z daters are currently practicing celibacy. Among this group, 64% of Black women have chosen a celibate lifestyle, with 61% citing personal growth or self-discovery as the primary motivation. Additionally, many respondents expressed frustration with the toxic dating environment as another key reason for their decision.
